Janelle Shantz Hertzler, who suffered a great loss of her own in July of 2005, started a grief website and has written a book to help others who have experienced a major loss. Her husband passed away suddenly when their son was just 18 months old.
Janelle recently contacted me about doing an interview with her to add to her site. She asked me some great questions, and while it was hard not to get too long-winded with my responses, you can read the interview here.
I recommend taking a look through her site, as it contains tons of great resources and information for anyone who is grieving or wants to help someone who is grieving.